How can I help my miserable partner?

My boyfriend is very unhappy. He's very jealous, insecure, his self esteem is non existent, jobless and paranoid. He's been putting crap in his head and as a result he takes it out on me. He drinks and smoke, he gets very verbally abusive once he's drunk.

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Ryannnnnn · 31-35, M

Sounds like too many personal issues, and not ones that you can or should attempt to fix. If he doesn't fix them he'll just get more resentful down the line, sounds like he needs to get himself together and work on himself for a couple of years.