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How can I help my miserable partner?

My boyfriend is very unhappy. He's very jealous, insecure, his self esteem is non existent, jobless and paranoid. He's been putting crap in his head and as a result he takes it out on me. He drinks and smoke, he gets very verbally abusive once he's drunk.
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rckt148 · 61-69, M
My women leave me when I forget how I won their heart
woke me up every time

I know men who abuse their women for years and they just put up with it
I get left over drinking and taking pain meds ,,but I am in severe pain
they just left before doctors finally confirmed it
and I worked with 12 decompressed discs ,both knees shot
but I needed help to do it ,we had a lot to loose
and I always pay the bills ,my woman only works if she wants to

So I don't get yall ,,some stay through anything ,I get left for little things

I can just tell you from lots of experience ,,
as soon as they say "I want a divorce or I'm leaving "
My life flashes before my eyes and I go to begging

but my answer is always "to little to late "

but all but 1 of them has asked to come back ,,years later when they find out I am far from the worst jerk out there
But until now ,I have never wanted to do a do over but once
and I couldn't let it go
When she started bitching again I said "you asked to come back ,you are welcome to leave again " so I have not tried it again
But now another ex wants to come back ,,I still love her
I am once again considering another chance
She will be the 1st I prayed to come back that has if we get back together

I am sorry you are having to endure that ,
I bet "I am gone " would fix that ,or he is not worthy of you're time anyway