How can I help my miserable partner?

My boyfriend is very unhappy. He's very jealous, insecure, his self esteem is non existent, jobless and paranoid. He's been putting crap in his head and as a result he takes it out on me. He drinks and smoke, he gets very verbally abusive once he's drunk.

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plungesponge · 41-45, M

Honestly? Give him a loving bj. Hear me out. Then say, "Honey I love you but you have been in a rut for months. If you don't find a way out of it, I'm not going to stick around while you take it out on me. But if you do pull it together, I'm be there to help you, grow with you and fvck your brains out"

CoffeeFirst · 56-60, F

@plungesponge WTF?