How can I help my miserable partner?

My boyfriend is very unhappy. He's very jealous, insecure, his self esteem is non existent, jobless and paranoid. He's been putting crap in his head and as a result he takes it out on me. He drinks and smoke, he gets very verbally abusive once he's drunk.

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silkandlace · 46-50, M

Agreed with @Uncle,, but since you poise the question, and i'm JUST asking,, do you or would you feel that you're part of the equation? I'm experiencing some weird vibes with the wifey, and, i do not think i'm the root problem, but what if i'm a contributing factor?!

MzAnonymouz · 36-40, F

@silkandlace His biggest problem with me is I work Saturdays. He said he wants to spend more time with me. He will keep chuckin tantrum until he gets what he wants.

silkandlace · 46-50, M

@MzAnonymouz i think i read another of your posts the other night; tantrum? Ouch!!

silkandlace · 46-50, M

@SW-User thanks