I'm going to tell my bf about my trauma, but I don't know how or when?
How do you find a good time and place? I keep procrastinating but I need/want/know it's time to tell him what happened to me.
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Nerdsmith · 51-55, M
Don't, just now. Don't. You didn't for good reasons. I've been there and done that... If you're following my pattern, it's to submarine the relationship and kill it because you think it's dead already. Get a real intimate second opinion... Therapy maybe or a trusted friend. Someone your trust that knows already. Sure, you tell him sometime... If you honestly can't envision a positive outcome, you're probably not doing it for the "right" right reason. Yes, I know that makes a sense of sorts.