Are childless couples selfish?

I have read that people who don't want children are inherently selfish. Either way it's a choice that people make as bringing up children is indeed very hard ! People make sacrifices to put their children first in mostly any decision. This is understandable but can also be considered a selfish choice as the childless person is free to do what they want without having to consider others, it maybe because the person is career minded or just not maternal or paternal. What do you think ?

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SW-User

Why is it selfish to live a life you want? It's not like the world is dying for more people... I'd rather someone not have a kid than have one they hate and treat like shit.

GardenSage · 36-40, M

It’s not selfish as an insult. And nobody is saying it isn’t justified... but it is selfish by definition. You’re choosing a life centered around self. While a parents life is largely selfless, as most of your resources go to caring and loving for another. @SW-User

SW-User

@GardenSage I don't see how having no kids has to mean your life is centered around yourself, especially if you're out helping your community or something.