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How do I tell a woman I was in jail before?

I was put in jail overnight when I was 17 for domestic violence. I’m now 23. I’ve changed a lot since then. How would I tell a woman about my past without scaring her off?
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4meAndyou · F
You just have to blurt it out. Like this: "Full disclosure, I care about you a lot, and I want our relationship to be really honest...so I need to tell you about something that happened when I was a kid."

Then just tell her the story...tell her who you hurt, and why, and tell her how wrong it was, and tell her how you are different now and that since you've gotten older you've found different and better ways to deal with your feelings.