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4meAndyou · F
This is VERY important, and I hope you will listen. Because you have a girlfriend but your eyes are roving around, you have to be honest with yourself, and with her. You need to break up with your girlfriend. You need to explain to her that you are not ready to have a relationship, and that you are too immature.
If you think that would hurt her, admit to yourself that it will be a quick cut, as opposed to a festering poisoned cut that never heals, which is what you would give her if you stayed with her and became indifferent, fell out of love, and cheated on her.
For a while at least, do NOT have a girlfriend. Wait until you grow up a little more. This second girl may be the one...but it also may be that you have seen several desserts on the buffet table and your eyes are bigger than your stomach.
If you think that would hurt her, admit to yourself that it will be a quick cut, as opposed to a festering poisoned cut that never heals, which is what you would give her if you stayed with her and became indifferent, fell out of love, and cheated on her.
For a while at least, do NOT have a girlfriend. Wait until you grow up a little more. This second girl may be the one...but it also may be that you have seen several desserts on the buffet table and your eyes are bigger than your stomach.
Hurleytrey · 26-30, M
my gf is young and sweet .she loves me a lot .like crazy.so its kinda hard to break up wit her and that second girl is single mom .her ex used to beat her up .I really care bout her and want to marry her. She's older than me.. still.i really love her