you sure you arent making yourself look 'easy'?

This guy has been dishonest with you from the start, by lying about being single. I’m sorry but if he still shares the same roof as his g/f, then they have not split up & he is not single. Another red flag is that he doesn’t seem interested in you as a person, he doesn’t ask about you going away, etc. Please be careful if you meet this man in person again, because as it stands he has nothing to offer you & I fear he is only looking for a good time, which will inevitably lead to you getting hurt. Respect yourself, hold out for someone better, someone who deserves you & is free to love you - protect your heart 💜❤️

He’s playing you, doesn’t ask ‘bout you an your day, he’s feathering his bed while is ex is on the fence.

Sounds like, and smells like bullshit

He's probably having issues with his GF and he's testing the waters before he leaves her, if he ever does. He's a weak man, walk away.

Update: Me and this guy are no longer talking. Gave him up in the hope for someone better :) All my anxiety is gone and I'm feeling free - intuition about the situation says a lot! Going to New York this weekend so have lots to be happy about :)

Thanks everyone for your comments - this is what I like about this place, can find support when I have no one else to talk to. You have also given me some serious food for thought and have put into words what I already feel - like something is wrong about the whole situation. I'll give an update once I've done something about this.

Didn't you post this already

Once a cheat always a cheat , he is cheating

In your situation you need strong and emotional relationship from a guy who can take your care. But this guy only want random hookups or maybe casual thing with you. He won't be serious for you. Don't get me wrong I have been through that.

Sounds risky, like in you're setting yourself up for disappointment, but I think it's worth the risk.👍💞

I think it is smart of you to be wondering if you should keep texting this guy or not. I see many things that just don't sound right. He speaks about himself and rarely asks about you. He is still living with his ex, maybe still having sex with her. He seems not to be very good bf material, in my opinion. If I was in your situation I think I would end things and concentrate on my life and meet men offline through friends, family, work, interests, etc. Well, that's my two cents.

As much as I want to say I hope it works out for you both, and I do, I just see red flags for both of you. One that he lives with his ex, anything can happen. Wha tif down the road he decides to be with her again? Also, I think you also needed time out of relationships for a while before you dive abck in them due to your confidence issues and such. Im really trying not to be mean or negative, just honest if that makes sesne? I dont like people getting hurt <3

If someone's on tinder they're probably f****** every person that agrees tinder is not a place to develop a long-term relationship

Sounds like rebounding to me plus he isn't taking any interest in your life is another red flag. I would move out.

"Agap' girl to fill in time, an ego-boost for the mean time".

That's my answer and probably your answer too. It explains alot. You have already figured it out but I guess, you are more into with a fight with what you want for this relationship or what ever you like to call it. But I found my answers.

But it doesn't answer, how some one move so fast, in a month time? From his ex to you? Sounds like a fast mover like wind.

Didn’t you post this story 5 minutes ago?

I think he’s attached as he does not seem interested in you when he’s living abroad, don’t bother

Too long of a text to read while on the toilet... maybe for my evening whiskey...

You're being played..
Forget him, would be my advice.

Aww. It sucks to be in a one sided relationship. 🤷🏻‍♀️

Ty DNFM

I'll give you some advice about online dating. Dont do it end of story