Why do guys in here think it's ok to open a conversation with "Hey babe"? What a bunch of jerkoff losers

Look at it from a guys perspective .. each of them think that they are the only ones writing to a gal for they have no clue how many others pm are in queue .. and they have experienced being admonished for other formal approaches .. and most get the mood of a gal from the way she writes.. so they just react to their impulse..

But on your end you are being spammed by too many who open up the same way ..

So just exercising tolerance for a few messages can get you across to a better guy ..