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Why do guys in here think it's ok to open a conversation with "Hey babe"? What a bunch of jerkoff losers

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andreafg · 22-25, F

i know right? They think they're unique or interesting...

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andreafg · 22-25, F

They're clueless, lol.

Fortunately they're not all like that. Let's think more positive, though: What's the best example of a good intro message you've received, @Saratzuke?

Saratzuke · 26-30, F

@andreafg All and any who call me "Babe" get royally ignored

Saratzuke · 26-30, F

@andreafg I like it when a compliment is paid that isn't lurid or overtly sexual

RemovedUsername1005333 · 100+, M

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in10RjFox · M

Look at it from a guys perspective .. each of them think that they are the only ones writing to a gal for they have no clue how many others pm are in queue .. and they have experienced being admonished for other formal approaches .. and most get the mood of a gal from the way she writes.. so they just react to their impulse..

But on your end you are being spammed by too many who open up the same way ..

So just exercising tolerance for a few messages can get you across to a better guy ..

GardenSage · 36-40, M

@in10RjFox nerd.

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DragunFruit · 26-30, F

I think it's better than "can I ask you some dirty question? Do you love spanking"

Oh no, just don't 🤦🤦🤦

andreafg · 22-25, F

@DragunFruit Worst ones I've had:

* Hey can I ask you something, do you like group sex?

* Hey should I be forced to wear girls clothes?

DragunFruit · 26-30, F

@andreafg these are just so true!

Saratzuke · 26-30, F

@andreafg Hahaha girls clothes why not they suit me

eMortal · M

The question is, why should they even try to impress you? They probably have no intention in hitting on you. Why do you expect guys to be exceptional when talking to you!?

Keepitsimple · 51-55, F

How about “Hello dear” 🤦🏻‍♀️

MysteryWanting · F

@Keepitsimple cringe

Keepitsimple · 51-55, F

@MysteryWanting Me too. I’m not sure if In certain parts of the country women like that or what but I definitely think twice about acknowledging those texts.

IndigoSavage · 22-25, F

I know. I never respond

Saratzuke · 26-30, F

@IndigoSavage Best not too

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GardenSage · 36-40, M

But babe... hey doe

Saratzuke · 26-30, F

Suddenly getting a host of nice intros from guys

Success · 26-30, F

Well, honey... (JK)

MrBrownstone · 46-50, M

Same as a bar

Thatsright · 61-69, M

Hey babe, chill.

MrPerditus1 · 61-69, M

The only person I call babe or baby is the one I'm with and if she likes it. Never felt comfortable calling anyone else "babe". Then again, I guess I was taught different.

Dainbramadge · 56-60, M

Keyboard Casanovas. They probably can't even talk to a woman in R/L.

MarmeeMarch · M

The same guys that are allowed to do that by the women they keep company with

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GardenSage · 36-40, M

@Saratzuke what’s funny is in real life, most conversations with strangers begins with an innocuous greeting.

Hi.

But that’s taboo online, and I’m content with playing by the rules. :)

andreafg · 22-25, F

@GardenSage yes in real life there's a more direct expectation of politeness because you're seeing a real human person face to face. It's much more rude to just downright ignore someone but online it's easy

Saratzuke · 26-30, F

@andreafg That makes me very rude then as I ignore the majority of approaches I get online.

496sbc · 36-40, M

i normally say hi and the name and i try to definitely compliment a picture or a post. or at least some groups

bhatjc · 46-50, M

They should get to know you better,to even get to that level. But still that is only if you like that term

PhoenixPhail · M

I agree. Just because they're anonymous, doesn't mean it's a free-for-all.

Dadbod52 · 56-60, M

its so hard for us to break the ice. I do try and put my best foot forward though

HannahSky · F

I kinda like it, gives a heads up on what to expect lol

Saratzuke · 26-30, F

@HannahSky Or what to ignore

HannahSky · F

@Saratzuke definitely

Withintent · M

Maybe a lack of vocabulary

eMortal · M

Hey love, how are you?

DudeistPriest · M

It's intended to provoke you, to get a rise out of you.
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SW-User

Lazy they have no game

Spokeskitties75 · 46-50, M

Anyone who starts off with “babe” probably only has jerking off as an option!! Lol 😂

SW-User

I totally agree with you, sweet tits.

dale74 · M

That's better than them just sending you a dick picture

andreafg · 22-25, F

@dale74 both are bad

Saratzuke · 26-30, F

@andreafg Dick pics yuck who needs them

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