If it's okay for men to look for a woman with great body and face, why do people judge women who choose rich men?

I kinda get this, just because my fella is older than me...

But my boyfriend get's it more from his friends as they perceive me as a gold digger....

Amazing really....finding someone you love and want to be with...regardless of age...

Sarah 💋

I see no problem with this. I feel that People tend to gravitate toward those who have money and a job because they’re more secure rather than someone who is poor.

It’s important to be well. I know people who have chosen wealth over love.

I'd say it's roughly the same thing. Having very high physical standards for either wealth or appearance is rather shallow. On the opposite side, I would not expect a woman to choose a deadbeat that cannot contribute to the partnership any more than I would a man to choose someone they do not find appealing in some fashion.

I think, however, the women seeking rich men have a more difficult time of it because of the expectation of divorce these days. Which is an unfair judgement to make outright.

That’s a good question. Wealth can provide a lifetime of security, while looks don’t last.