Is it okay for one person to be the decision maker in a relationship?
I usually make the decisions and have the final say on a lot of things, my boyfriend is fine and comfortable with it too.
26-30, F
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No. It's not okay. Eventually the other person becomes resentful. From what I have seen.
WendyLopez43 · 26-30, F
@Snowvixen he seems very grateful actually, he said he's not great at making decisions.
@WendyLopez43 it starts off like that, but give it time. It always ends up being "your bossy" or "you're acting like my mom"
quitwhendone · M
@Snowvixen Well duh!
WendyLopez43 · 26-30, F
@Snowvixen He'd be fussing now if he had to make the decisions.
@quitwhendone some dudes just need to step it up and say what they mean 😤😜
quitwhendone · M
@Snowvixen A man can't wear the pants in a relationship if he doesn't have any testicles to cover with those pants.
WendyLopez43 · 26-30, F
@Snowvixen let me put it this way, thinking isn't his strong suite. Even he admitted that to me.
quitwhendone · M
@WendyLopez43 Ouch! Are you saying he is on the dumb side or he just doesn't make good decisions or both?
WendyLopez43 · 26-30, F
@quitwhendone Not exactly the brightest crayon in the box.
quitwhendone · M
@WendyLopez43 So what's the attraction? A big, muscular, buff body? Movie star good looks? A big dick? Money? Or is he just really, really so very sweet to you that it makes you melt?
WendyLopez43 · 26-30, F
@quitwhendone he's both good looking and really, really so very sweet to me that it makes me melt.
quitwhendone · M
@WendyLopez43 ok, enjoy him.