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Should I just settle down with "Fair enough"?

He has his flaws. He may not be a perfect match of my calibre, not stimulating enough for intelligent conversations, language and country barrier to cross, restrictions I have to compromise.

It's not that I can't find anyone else better out there; I know my worth and potential.
I can easily find someone of my calibre if desired.

I may not love him the most in my lifetime, but I'm satisfied.
He's willing to spend the rest of his life with me, to shift over to my country and build a home with me.
I can choose to be eternally devoted to him, although there's a void he isn't able to fill. But there's no one size fits all isn't there?

I just wonder if it's okay for me to do the same. I may not have my emotional needs fulfilled from him, but I can find another outlet, like friends or stimulating debates / activities.

Is it okay for me to settle with fair enough?
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SteelHands · 61-69, M
Standard hot female friend answer:
What's this desperado crap all about?
Are you out of your friggin mind or what?

Standard parent who want's grandchild answer:
Love works in mysterious ways feelings grow.
If you and he find common ground who's to judge?

Dr Ruth answer:
Ist da zezx gute? Zen evysing vill be all vite

My answer:
How would I know I'm nobody to ask a serious question like that.