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To think this inappropriate?

Partner had his female friend round today. I cycled into work and so he didnt know I was there putting my bike away at the side of the house.
She was upset and he kept touching her thigh and moved close and put his arm around her. I am not comfortable with this but don't want him to know I was looking. Was he out of line? How do I approach it?
Jenni855
36-40, F
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Montanaman 路 M
Oh, but big time out of line, and should be called out on it. 馃檮馃槖馃様
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SW-User
Why don鈥檛 you want him to know you were looking?
You caught him red handed
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Jenni855 路 36-40, F
He got angry when I confronted him and said 'How can you think I would be attracted to her? She reminds me of Sienna (His 8 year old daughter ) even though she is my age (33). She is tiny and very young looking. He is 52 and said he feels paternal 馃槓
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Montanaman 路 M
@SW-User f**king master manipulator. Don't buy into it!馃檮馃槖
Go back to your original post and just read it!
Then, if you want to be fair, ask his lady friend if it was in-appropriate touching.
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Montanaman 路 M
@Jenni855 f**king master manipulator. Don't buy into it! 馃檮馃槨馃槖馃檯
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xixgun 路 M
@Jenni855 (His anger and defensiveness tells you everything you need to know.)
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Jenni855 路 36-40, F
I just felt it was inappropriate to be touching her there. It looked like supportive touching but his hands should not be there 馃槓
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Montanaman 路 M
@Jenni855 suggestive touching is probably more like it.馃槖
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ThePerfectUsername 路 70-79, M
He way well have been consoling her for a legitimate reason but putting his hand of her thigh is a huge red flag saying he wasn't.
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xixgun 路 M
Oh yeah. I'm sorry, but your partner was [b]not[/b] being comforting but was "looking for an in".
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Jester1987 路 M
Stay away from him. Or Be upfront about it right now. It's your call.
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StevetheSleeve 路 31-35, M
Thigh touches are tough to explain away. Good luck whatever you do.
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SW-User
If I saw my "partner" touching another woman you bet I would confront him and tell him get the hell out of my life and no second chances jerk!馃が
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Jenni855 路 36-40, F
@SW-User He is naturally affectionate but he kept doing it 馃槓
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SW-User
Oh so that's his excuse. I say bs to that!@Jenni855
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SW-User
@Jenni855 touching her thigh is beyond consoling someone
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SW-User
Destroy her
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SW-User
Lol@SW-User
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SW-User
@SW-User 馃槤
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ThePerfectUsername 路 70-79, M
The problem isn't with her, it's with him.
Does a woman have to be able to trust every other woman in the world?
Hell no.
All she has to trust is one man.
It makes life so much simpler.

@SW-User
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