Afc71 · 51-55, M
Yup!
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NativeOregonian · 51-55
@LovesJazz2 *hugs* Thank you 🤗
Peppa · 31-35, F
@NativeOregonian ok
NativeOregonian · 51-55
@Peppa My late fiancee and her younger son put me through hell. One year before she died she confessed to me she deceived me on the real reason why she got with me. I could have left her many times, and after that confession I had every right to pack up and go. But I didn't, because I loved her enough to take care of her while she was sick with a years long issue with reoccuring pneumonias, she eventually died during one of her numerous hospital stays.
Roadsterrider · 56-60, M
I guess it depends on the person. It depends on if both parties feel that way and what the benefits are. If you are looking for that "forever relationship" but you are hung up in the moment, that relationship that you are really seeking may walk right past you because you are otherwise occupied. The only person who knows what is important to you, is you. Decide what you want and go for it. Your actions determine your future.
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NativeOregonian · 51-55
@SW-User Thank you for the hug 🤗 Yes, love is a choice, a very strong snd important one. I asked my Grandfather once how he managed to stay with my grandmother for so long after all the shit she put him through, all he told me was how he felt the first time he met her, that all he could think of was wanting to marry her. My grandmother is trash, she put my Grandfather through things that would have justified him leaving her multitudes of times, but he still loved her despite it all. My Grandfather died of pancreatic cancer in 1992 when I was 22, he was 66, I took his death much harder than I did than my Dad's, who died when I was ten, two months short of my 11th birthday in 1981, I was his favorite child.
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@NativeOregonian Sorry for your losses.
Your grandfather's situation is like my mom's. It makes me sad because he's awful, but she sounds so happy when she talks about how she and my dad met. She really fell in love with him. Agreeing or disagreeing with her situation, no one can take that from them.
Your grandfather's situation is like my mom's. It makes me sad because he's awful, but she sounds so happy when she talks about how she and my dad met. She really fell in love with him. Agreeing or disagreeing with her situation, no one can take that from them.
NativeOregonian · 51-55
SW-User
Yes. Most relationships don't last forever, but they are amazing while they do. Nothing wrong with that as long as you're honest about it and both of you feel the same way.
NativeOregonian · 51-55
@SW-User That is the wrong mentality to take, we should want relationships to last, your thinking makes it too easy to want to give up.
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@NativeOregonian Of course, but if that's not in the cards, why not enjoy what you have at the moment if that makes you both happy? If you prefer to break it off immediately, go ahead. That doesn't mean everyone else has to handle their relationships the same way.
NativeOregonian · 51-55
Thorstormbringer · M
I actually chose to let that happen many yrs ago. Didn’t want the relationship to end but she did but she was willing to date me and sleep with me a few more months until she moved far away.
We never saw each other again after that...
It was bittersweet
But I always treasure those last few months...
We never saw each other again after that...
It was bittersweet
But I always treasure those last few months...
Roadsterrider · 56-60, M
As long as both parties know it really isn't going anywhere I would say "have at it". I have been in casual relationships where the other party changed their mind. It becomes more difficult to extract yourself when this happens.
Work on it. 💞
NativeOregonian · 51-55
SW-User
Every relationship builds tour confidence and your knowing who you really want to marry for the rest of tour life
Sterler45 · 36-40, M
Enjoy it until it ends. Life is to enjoy as there’s a lot of sadness already.
Keepitsimple · 51-55, F
Not exclusively but I would make time for them and remain friendly.
Hotelroom38 · 51-55, M
oh a deep question.... but YES!!! enjoy every second that you can.
HifromJim · M
What is it that makes you feel it's ending?
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Pdad49 · M
Yes, nothing to lose!
river52 · 70-79, M
absolutely
Thorstormbringer · M
Yes!
I have done just that, several times, with several different women, many years ago. It was bittersweet when it ended, but I knew it was coming to an end for months. But I enjoyed their company and great sex too, right up to the end..,
I have done just that, several times, with several different women, many years ago. It was bittersweet when it ended, but I knew it was coming to an end for months. But I enjoyed their company and great sex too, right up to the end..,
IWasCallingYaLarry · 31-35, M
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IWasCallingYaLarry · 31-35, M
@waleskinder Lol exactly.