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Peppa · 31-35, F
Its bittersweet youbwanna keep the good feels but it'll go sour when its gonna end. Id say end it now
NativeOregonian · 51-55
@Peppa I say that if it's a genuine relationship she should work all the harder to make it work.
Peppa · 31-35, F
@NativeOregonian
If you know a relationship is probably not going to last but you still enjoy every second of it, should you continue having that relationship?
false hope is what gets people's heartbroken
NativeOregonian · 51-55
@Peppa One of the BIGGEST fuckups Boomers showed us X'ers is that they gave up on marriages and relationships way too quickly, they were too god damned lazy to try and make them work. It horribly affected my generation, the Millennials, and now Gen Z is so messed up when it comes to relationships that I seriously doubt many of them will ever have healthy ones. No, it is not false hope, relationships take work, and the more you value them the more they must be worked on.
LovesJazz2 · 56-60, F
@NativeOregonian I totally agree with you. Wish I would have read this 30 years ago!
NativeOregonian · 51-55
@LovesJazz2 *hugs* Thank you 🤗
LovesJazz2 · 56-60, F
@NativeOregonian 🤗 🤗 🤗
NativeOregonian · 51-55
@LovesJazz2 🤗🌹🦋
Peppa · 31-35, F
@NativeOregonian well she just said it was probably going to end. I wouldn't waste any time putting my heart and soul into it anymore.
When a relationship is indefinitely happy and isnt 'probably' going to end i put 110%
When a relationship is indefinitely happy and isnt 'probably' going to end i put 110%
NativeOregonian · 51-55
@Peppa She still enjoys the relationship, which means there is something good there, that she obviously enjoys spending time with him, and I personally believe that is something to hold onto, not give up. You all are too willing to give up way too easily, pathetic.
Peppa · 31-35, F
@NativeOregonian i think youre incredibly rude. I stated my point of view we dont have to agree.
NativeOregonian · 51-55
@Peppa I really do not give a shit you thinking that, the truth is the truth, people give up too easily because they are not willing to work for it. You either face life for what it is, or hide in a cave somewhere.
Peppa · 31-35, F
@NativeOregonian are you in a relationship?
LovesJazz2 · 56-60, F
@Peppa She still enjoys every second of it. Why end it now?
Peppa · 31-35, F
@LovesJazz2 i already expressed my opinion if you dont share that opinion you can post that in your response to her.
NativeOregonian · 51-55
@Peppa My fiancee died in 2010.
NativeOregonian · 51-55
@LovesJazz2 Exactly
NativeOregonian · 51-55
@Peppa However I am also in a long distance serious friendship, my BFF moved back to her hometown, her and I were also FWB, her and I talk on the phone almost daily.
LovesJazz2 · 56-60, F
@NativeOregonian 😢 🤗
NativeOregonian · 51-55
@LovesJazz2 *hugs* Thank you 🤗
Peppa · 31-35, F
@NativeOregonian ok
NativeOregonian · 51-55
@Peppa My late fiancee and her younger son put me through hell. One year before she died she confessed to me she deceived me on the real reason why she got with me. I could have left her many times, and after that confession I had every right to pack up and go. But I didn't, because I loved her enough to take care of her while she was sick with a years long issue with reoccuring pneumonias, she eventually died during one of her numerous hospital stays.