I have a stalker

he keeps on calling and sending messages. I've been sleeping with him for a month, then i wanted to go, for many reasons. But he can't get over it, he keeps on coming outside my door at night, after denying his phone calls, and it scares me. He 'accidentally' meet me often around and insists that we need to talk. I refuse, after i've accepted a few times and see where is this going.
I don't want to get the police involved, as he's been in prison in the past and i don't want to cause him further trouble.
But i've to admit i'm afraid

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4meAndyou · F

You are really asking for trouble...REALLY asking for trouble. You have decided not to call the police and you have decided not to file a restraining order, so when he comes around outside your door at night...with you all unprotected, and him all unreported...there is NO ONE to help you if he gets angry, or decides that you are HIS and you don't get to decide.

So...if he becomes angry...and stalkers ALWAYS do when they are denied...it is you who have decided you want him to hurt you. And He WILL hurt you.

If you leave this unreported, you are allowing it.