Thanks @Infamous

I would probably have to leave him alone @abe182

@MrsCurious do you think he would leave if you wanted him to?

It’s hard because every time he leaves he always find a way of coming back and I end up letting him thinking he will change and don’t @abe182

That’s my opinion @maturedragon

@MrsCurious leave him, he does not deserve you

@MrsCurious if you cohabitate, you should be taking total cost of the month, and that's what you budget for-- your equal share. Not just the bills, the chores, too. Pull your own weight. If each side is trying to make the other's life easier... imagine what you could do then?

I do everything so I might as well be alone I do all the cooking he does all the eating. I do all the cleaning he do all the messing it up along with my two other kids. He might clean up every now and then and that’s because it’s beneficial to him @GwydionFrost

@MrsCurious You know, maybe you should show him the door. Tell him when he does what you do to take care of yourself without it being at other people's expense, come back and show you. Maybe then you can talk. He doesn't change because you need him to prove it FIRST, not promise it. Walk the walk.

You got this. Let him get it, too. It's an important thing to know in the world.

I’ve had this conversation before but I’m starting to think he doesn’t get it or care at all. He’s always online shopping for car parts instead of doing what he supposed to do at home first and I’m stuck paying all the bills which is fine @Ryannnnnn

I guess I feel he’s not supporting my dreams and I support his then he’s drunk and all over the place @MarkPaul

@MrsCurious Well, you do have a point there.

I don’t deserve it either and I hate to seem like I need someone when I don’t I slept peacefully last night but I woke up missing him @SW-User