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Girlfriend is over reacting

I split from my wife last year and am in love with my girlfriend who I met just a couple months on. However, she is angry with me because of the following-

1. Telling my female friend about my ex wife taking her vibrator from our marital home above the photos of our child.

She said it was inappropriate and not what you say to your female friend.

2. The fact that I 'touched said female friends thigh' several times throughout the conversation and sat and put my arm around her. (She was upset)

Said I shouldn't be touching another woman especially on the thigh.

We were at a house party when all this was going on and I didn't know my girlfriend was watching although my actions would have been the same regardless. I did nothing wrong.

Thoughts?
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MrPerditus1 · 61-69, M
Innocent or not, if you care for her, you have to take her feelings into account. You say she's over reacting, but that's your opinion. She isn't in her opinion and you can't make her feel your feelings. She's allowed to feel how she feels as you are yours. What you have to do, in any relationship is compromise. If you really love her, pull back on how you interact with others that she doesn't feel comfortable with. If you don't want to, then you really don't care as much as you say or think you do. That's my opinion.

It's all give and take on both sides and though you may think she's being unfair, guess what, she's probably thinking the same thing about you right now. Put yourself in her position, not with your thought process, but hers. Just a thought.
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MrPerditus1 · 61-69, M
@SW-User Thanks