Girlfriend is over reacting

I split from my wife last year and am in love with my girlfriend who I met just a couple months on. However, she is angry with me because of the following-

1. Telling my female friend about my ex wife taking her vibrator from our marital home above the photos of our child.

She said it was inappropriate and not what you say to your female friend.

2. The fact that I 'touched said female friends thigh' several times throughout the conversation and sat and put my arm around her. (She was upset)

Said I shouldn't be touching another woman especially on the thigh.

We were at a house party when all this was going on and I didn't know my girlfriend was watching although my actions would have been the same regardless. I did nothing wrong.

Thoughts?

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FerretLad1999 · 26-30, M

You specifically saying that you thought your girlfriend wasn't looking is kinda a red flag pal.

BluePlanet · 41-45, M

@FerretLad1999 No. It was just to explain where she was rather then my awareness of her being there or not

SW-User

@FerretLad1999 huge red flag

FerretLad1999 · 26-30, M

@BluePlanet Ok regardless even if you didn't mean anything by doing it if you touch a girls thighs and are putting your arms around her it's gonna make your gf angry and you should probably just apologize and talk to her if you care about her and cut your losses

FerretLad1999 · 26-30, M

@SW-User Exactly if you thought your gf wasn't looking and you did something like that it's not gonna make what you did sound innocent.

BluePlanet · 41-45, M

@FerretLad1999 Okay.