Interracial relationship advice?

Lately the relationship has been kinda rocky and it all blew up and he called me racist ... resulting in many hurt feelings as he did not realize how offensive that was to me, especially when only said out of spite .

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hami1091 · 41-45, F

I can tell you are hurt by what he said but all relationships need work especially young relationships. If your relationship is rocky on a regular basis though and he's only saying things out of spite it might not be a good relationship for you.Sometimes we got to move on even when our heart doesn't want to I wish I'd realized that years before I did in my first marriage. We shouldn't stay where we are not happy.