Interracial relationship advice?

Lately the relationship has been kinda rocky and it all blew up and he called me racist ... resulting in many hurt feelings as he did not realize how offensive that was to me, especially when only said out of spite .

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JaggedLittlePill · 46-50, F

I am not sure you can come back from that. Honestly. I would not be able to. Especially if it was said out of spite. That says a lot about him, in my opinion.

I would also feel fucking sick if my SO of another race truly thought I had done or said something they could consider racist.

antisocialbutterfly · 22-25, F

Like he just thought it was ok to make the argument stronger ... like I hate his attitude that white people cant be offended @JaggedLittlePill

JaggedLittlePill · 46-50, F

@antisocialbutterfly I am sorry. This can't be easy. But maybe better to cut your losses. Unfortunately, somethings are just not able to be fixed.

antisocialbutterfly · 22-25, F

Well I definitely decided I’m not walking on eggshells anymore to be s low maintenance girlfriend