What’s the best way of getting over a person?

I’m planning on being celibate for the next 5 years of my life. At this moment I’m recovering from a heart break. So I just wanted to know, what is the best way of moving on and getting over a guy who played you? I didn’t block him, because he isn’t gonna message me or try to apologize to me. So I’ve just sort of fallen back and now I’m silent and in my own world.

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DoubleRings · 51-55, F

well realize it’s not the end of the world and this happens all the time to people. my last break up took so long to get over that i had to force myself to commit to other people because it wasn’t reasonable or fair to just stand still for almost a decade. Personally i don’t recommend celibacy for 5 years for various reasons. Take the time you need then get back out there and start loving and living again.

ROSEFUMES · 22-25, F

By the time it’s over I’ll be 24. Lol, which is a long while away. But I already made a bet .@DoubleRings

DoubleRings · 51-55, F

honestly it seems serious now but even my worst breakups at your age were not as bad as i thought they were. i just wasn’t seeing clearly at the time what kind of douchebags i was dealing with

ROSEFUMES · 22-25, F

I think I saw what kind of douchbag I was dealing with but was blinded by the mask and bullshit under it. I compromised my self love for false hopes and illusions. That’s where I messed up@DoubleRings

DoubleRings · 51-55, F

K well then why punish yourself with celibacy?? Why mourn at all? Get out there, be happy you’re out and start living!! @ROSEFUMES

ROSEFUMES · 22-25, F

It’s not really punishment it was a bet

mayguy · 46-50, M

@ROSEFUMES The sheer intelligence you continually display in every sentence at such a young age is truly amazing. You are impressive indeed! 😊

DoubleRings · 51-55, F

Just live life and have sex if you want it. @ROSEFUMES