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What’s the best way of getting over a person?

I’m planning on being celibate for the next 5 years of my life. At this moment I’m recovering from a heart break. So I just wanted to know, what is the best way of moving on and getting over a guy who played you? I didn’t block him, because he isn’t gonna message me or try to apologize to me. So I’ve just sort of fallen back and now I’m silent and in my own world.

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Keaten · 36-40, M

Surround yourself with people who care about you and want to be there for you.

DoubleRings · 51-55, F

well realize it’s not the end of the world and this happens all the time to people. my last break up took so long to get over that i had to force myself to commit to other people because it wasn’t reasonable or fair to just stand still for almost a decade. Personally i don’t recommend celibacy for 5 years for various reasons. Take the time you need then get back out there and start loving and living again.

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ROSEFUMES · 22-25, F

It’s not really punishment it was a bet

mayguy · 46-50, M

@ROSEFUMES The sheer intelligence you continually display in every sentence at such a young age is truly amazing. You are impressive indeed! 😊

DoubleRings · 51-55, F

Just live life and have sex if you want it. @ROSEFUMES

IWasCallingYaLarry · 26-30, M

Not really sure. But a girl did the same to me and we were talking and stuff for 3 years. She eventually blocked me and then unblocked me and just never replies to me at all. I wanna know what to do because she isn't gonna message me back :'( .

ROSEFUMES · 22-25, F

I’ve learned the hard way. I just keep my mouth shut and fallback silently. @IWasCallingYaLarry

IWasCallingYaLarry · 26-30, M

@ROSEFUMES *hugs you* I'm sorry.

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ROSEFUMES · 22-25, F

Other than that of course@Kingfish28

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Ryannnnnn · 31-35, M

I think cut all contact is a good first, especially social media or you'll just make the process harder and drag it out. Serious about that one, pull the plug.

Move towards your goals, better yourself for yourself, be it physically, mentally, emotionally, financially, education-wise.
Keep the momentum of your life moving and experience new things, focus on yourself and life, and effectively put the past behind you into a present that's so full of new things that you're not even thinking about the past.

ROSEFUMES · 22-25, F

Yeah that’s what I’m doing. I’ve already made my list an blueprint. Now I’m working towards it. I didn’t block him. But I just deleted his number and I know I won’t have to worry about getting any calls or texts from him because he doesn’t care like that. So yeah. It should be easy@Ryannnnnn

mayguy · 46-50, M

That's horrible yet happens to so many of us, especially online. Celibacy is not the answer because you're young, fun and gorgeous. The answer is that "time heals all wounds" as the old saying goes. 6 months from now, you will have forgotten all the pain and moved on with your life. 🙂

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mayguy · 46-50, M

@ROSEFUMES Thx! wait...what? u bet that u could be celibate for 5 years? ruh roh! that's a long time not to be fucking lol

ROSEFUMES · 22-25, F

Lol a very long time 🤦🏾‍♀️ I’m going to be extremely sexually frustrated. I love sex and to go without for so long will be a challenge. But it’s a test to see how disciplined I truly am

mayguy · 46-50, M

@ROSEFUMES I ♥ your intelligence and determination. Hmmm... I will message u with a possible workaround and quick intro of myself too. lol

Fernie · F

Grow some armor...it most likely won't be the last time your heart gets broken. Why would you be celibate for the next 5 years? I don't get the connection. Don't jump into a new relationship right away but 5 years is outrageous.It hurts for a while then it heals and passes.

ImKelsey · 26-30, F

Leapfrog.

ROSEFUMES · 22-25, F

Lol I can’t @ImKelsey

TimingQuasars

Im going through the same thing. You will get over that person don't worry. Breath. Keep yourself busy if you can and for me i tell msyelf ill find a better girl soon and ill get over the last real quik.

moonthesolitary · F

Cry ur heart out n vent online

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moonthesolitary · F

@ROSEFUMES let me tell u something: fuck him and screw him he is not worth it !!

ROSEFUMES · 22-25, F

Yeah I had to say just that today. Out loud cause I feel the universe needed to hear that shit out loud to know I’m no longer attracting inconsistent energies .@moonthesolitary

moonthesolitary · F

@ROSEFUMES good job

GoldenWorm · 51-55, M

Moving on is moving on. Have new experiences. They'll set your mind in different paths.

ROSEFUMES · 22-25, F

True @GoldenWorm

MrBrownstone · 46-50, M

Time.

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MrBrownstone · 46-50, M

@ROSEFUMES I don’t get what your bet is

ROSEFUMES · 22-25, F

The bet I made was to stay Celibate for the next 5 years of my life and after that ends I can go past the last finger on my hand. So I only have a chance to be with one guy for the other 4 years. It’s wild and stupid lol. But I like wining @MrBrownstone

GoldenWorm · 51-55, M

@ROSEFUMES That doesn't seem like a fair bet.

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ROSEFUMES · 22-25, F

Lol I can’t thats apart of my celibacy 😅🤦🏾‍♀️@energie

greenmountaingal · 70-79, F

@ROSEFUMES If you really don't want to get involved with someone, why go to the club? If you want to move on, not have any love affairs for a while, you need a change of scene and some new activities. Take up a new interest or hobby. Learn a new language. Buy a metal detector and join a metal detection club. Volunteer to build houses with Habitat for Humanity. Learn to ride a unicycle. Do something new, make new friends. It will help you forget and it will make you stronger. Hanging out at a club will just put you back in the same place and you'll fall for another player.

SW-User

replace them with newer version of them 😇

ROSEFUMES · 22-25, F

Lol I don’t want to be reminded of him @SW-User

mayguy · 46-50, M

@ROSEFUMES That's an excellent idea.

Tminus6453 · M

Find friends or jus stuff to occupy your time

ROSEFUMES · 22-25, F

I’m thinking of joining the military and marrying my career@Tminus6453

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ROSEFUMES · 22-25, F

I kinda fall into a deep depression when I do that. @SW-User

calicuz · 56-60, M

lots of booze

ROSEFUMES · 22-25, F

I hate puking. Might go to the club tonight though @calicuz

calicuz · 56-60, M

@ROSEFUMES

alright, dance the night away!!!

SW-User

Lemme know if i find one

ROSEFUMES · 22-25, F

Okay @SW-User

Withintent · M

Time and distance

MartaSpain · 36-40, F

Try a girl ;)

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