Men who stop talking to you as friends because they realise you aren’t interested....
Is this fair? It’s incredibly annoying.
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indyjoe · 56-60, M
@LittleTinks That is basically what I was getting at...your being nice and friendly to him was keeping him hopeful. You did what you had to do, but you made it clear and that is what was important. Some women are harsh and cruel in doing that which is wrong in general, but sometimes it is necessary especially when he is not getting or accepting the message.
That’s the thing I am always nice to people because that’s who I am I don’t like hurting people but I said I was married and didn’t want anything from anyone else and my post state that clearly yet he kept going on and on and saying he knows how to treat a woman etc etc and I then said I was looking for friends and he was like so you don’t want me lol.. I said I made this clear he said but you said you was bisexual lol 😂.. some men just don’t get it! @indyjoe @Sassy55
indyjoe · 56-60, M
@Sassy55 Sometimes a guy will be highly interested in you and does realize that you're not interested, but he is accepting and willing to just try to have you as a friend (because that is much better than nothing at all). However he may not realize just how powerful attraction, loving interest, or even sexual interest can be and it ends up more than he can handle. So it may be that he is trying and not just pretending to be your friend in a lot of cases.