Is it a bad idea to contact your ex to find out why they treated you poorly?

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Keepitsimple · 51-55, F

If you’re looking for closure you won’t get it with a person like that. Usually they are narcissistic. Everything is about them and their needs and wants

SW-User

@Keepitsimple yeah they justify themselves as if they were perfect and want to take advantage of the situation if posible.
Like my ex.

LoneGirl101 · 31-35, F

He explained things but it made me feel worse

Keepitsimple · 51-55, F

Or they patronize you with all their short comings and tell you they are a bad person and can’t stop it and again it’s about them. @SW-User

Keepitsimple · 51-55, F

Exactly. Hard as it is you have to move on. A person like that is not good for your mental and emotional well being.@LoneGirl101