Is it a bad idea to contact your ex to find out why they treated you poorly?

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Lynn1976 · 46-50, F

It depends on how you split up and what your post relationship contact is like.

LoneGirl101 · 31-35, F

@Lynn1976 Bad split up. He was dishonest and had someone for months

Lynn1976 · 46-50, F

@LoneGirl101 Cheaters will cheat. Liars will lie. I think that is much of your answer right there. Unless you two were very unhappy for a long time, he will likely lie and cheat with his new partner.

LoneGirl101 · 31-35, F

@Lynn1976 so if we were happy, he wouldn't do the same

Lynn1976 · 46-50, F

@LoneGirl101 He might have done the same. Cheaters and liars are never really happy people.