Is cheating a deal breaker for you?

I am 97% sure that my bf slept with someone else on Saturday. My friends are telling me to leave him, but I don't necessarily feel the same way. I want to talk about it and try to fix it. Thoughts?

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4meAndyou · F

It has always been a deal breaker for me, and was the basis for two of my divorces. The behaviors you tolerate in any partner will be repeated. Ask yourself this...(not just, is he always having safe sex and will come back to me clean),...do you want a bf or partner who is out there shopping for other people? WHY is he shopping for other people? I don't think it's because he is SO deeply in love with you.