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Is cheating a deal breaker for you?

I am 97% sure that my bf slept with someone else on Saturday. My friends are telling me to leave him, but I don't necessarily feel the same way. I want to talk about it and try to fix it. Thoughts?
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SAandME · 56-60, M
I don't know never had a relationship based on a deal mine have been based on feelings, respect, love and understanding. If they are still in place i would try to fix it but if they are only working in one direction it is time to call it a day.
indyjoe · 56-60, M
@SAandME The "deal" is part of that understanding and respect you spoke of...TRUST is the issue and deal.
SAandME · 56-60, M
@indyjoe Deal: an agreement entered into by two or more parties for their mutual benefit, especially in a business or political context.
I know it is common place to use the term but from a personal point of view that i do not like it as it is a cold, unloving, business like word. However the advice is the same if it is a two way deal "for mutual benefit" then try to fix it, if it is a one sided deal then break the deal.