Can you stop crushing on someone when you need to?

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TinyViolins · 31-35, M

If you focus on their negative qualities (sometimes you gotta fish), the crush tends to melt away

scooogy · 31-35, MVIP

@TinyViolins On the one hand I always focus on that flaw of hers of quite often crushing on muscular guys (in which I don't see any further quality), on the other hand she always gets me back with her smile.

TinyViolins · 31-35, M

@scooogy How far can you really trust a smile?

scooogy · 31-35, MVIP

@TinyViolins I thought that the fact that she asked me about my life would mean a sort of interest to a certain amount.

TinyViolins · 31-35, M

@scooogy Interest doesn't have to be romantic. Could be driven by curiosity or boredom