Sexy or cute?

If anyone ever says I’m attractive, the go-to adjective is always “cute”. Never sexy...I even had a guy friend tell me “I wouldn’t really describe you as sexy but you’re definitely cute, don’t get me wrong.”

???

Is it a bad thing? Good thing? Is it better to be sexy or cute? Can I be both?

It’s not a big deal and it doesn’t bother me in my daily life. Just doing some thinking tonight. How will I ever appeal to someone in the bedroom if, apparently, all I am is cute? Doesn’t everyone want some “sexy?”

Cute/sexy? Different things?

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LilPuckBunny · F

Maybe men fuck sexy and marry cute. 😉

Sb356 · 26-30, F

What if he marries cute but cheats with sexy🤔 see what I’m getting at? Of course I’m thinking too into it but you get it. @PetiteFreak]

LilPuckBunny · F

@Sb356 I think that's exactly it [i]but[/i] there are men who never cheat so it's a selection game.
So do you marry a cute or sexy man yourself? 🤷🏼‍♀️

Sb356 · 26-30, F

I guess I never really thought about it haha. I feel like some people can be both at times. Who knows lol @LilPuckBunny

LilPuckBunny · F

@Sb356 My husband is cute in public and extremely sexy behind closed doors.
They can def be both. (See you're answering your own question 😉)

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LilPuckBunny · F

@Sb356 I've always loved shy men.
I do think sexy is more of a chemistry word but that people can flick between the two through how they use their body. Much more carnal.
Although the exception for me is people who are on the rare super good-looking modelesque scale.