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Sexy or cute?

If anyone ever says I’m attractive, the go-to adjective is always “cute”. Never sexy...I even had a guy friend tell me “I wouldn’t really describe you as sexy but you’re definitely cute, don’t get me wrong.”

???

Is it a bad thing? Good thing? Is it better to be sexy or cute? Can I be both?

It’s not a big deal and it doesn’t bother me in my daily life. Just doing some thinking tonight. How will I ever appeal to someone in the bedroom if, apparently, all I am is cute? Doesn’t everyone want some “sexy?”

Cute/sexy? Different things?
Sb356
26-30, F
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midnightrose · F
I'm not sure. There are times when I've been told I'm sexy and times I've been told I'm cute. So I think you can be both.

Usually I'm called cute because of my mannerisms. And sometimes cute can be sexy too. Depends on the person I guess.
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Sb356 · 26-30, F
This, I’m seeing @midnightrose
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LilPuckBunny · F
Maybe men fuck sexy and marry cute. 😉
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LilPuckBunny · F
@Sb356 My husband is cute in public and extremely sexy behind closed doors.
They can def be both. (See you're answering your own question 😉)
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LilPuckBunny · F
@Sb356 I've always loved shy men.
I do think sexy is more of a chemistry word but that people can flick between the two through how they use their body. Much more carnal.
Although the exception for me is people who are on the rare super good-looking modelesque scale.
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raysam363 · 31-35, F
I think cute is generally used for likeable and attractive, while sexy is used for more carnal reasons.
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Sb356 · 26-30, F
Gotcha @raysam363
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SW-User
“Cute” is what I always get called. It’s better, in my opinion. Even though both could refer only to looks, “sexy” seems a little more objectifying.
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SW-User
Idk myself, but I think sexy is like... your body? whereas cute would be your face? But i'm not sure so don't quote me on it.
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Sb356 · 26-30, F
Right @SW-User
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SW-User
could be personality that stops you from being sexy
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Sb356 · 26-30, F
I’m definitely willing to bet, As someone who doesn’t have a lot of experience... but everyone has to start somewhere :( @SW-User
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Peacefulpanda
that's cute
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