Should I still have high hopes for finding a nice guy or just give up entirely?

@quitwhendone I'm looking for honesty, loyalty, and understanding type of Guy. And no thank you, I don't do online relationships, that's like the worst place to look for love.

@SilentShadow0110 Actually, it's not a bad place to meet people. I have met several people online. They are just like anyone else. some are really nice, some aren't. Most were nice. I have no regrets at all.

And I think I know why you have trouble meeting guys. I looked at your profile and saw this: "Isolated, Indifferent, Anti-Social."
Being indifferent and anti-social will keep you from forming friendships and relationships every time. It helps to be social.

@quitwhendone Thank you for replying to my Question and taking your time to write, I really appreciate it. I know socializing it's the keyword, but I been hurt a lot by fake friends I've in the past so I have trust issues.

@SilentShadow0110 First, you are quite welcomed. Secondly, I totally understand your aversion to socializing and trust issues. I don't socialize much myself. But I would guess that you are just a very shy person. You may even have Social Anxiety Disorder. What do you think?

@quitwhendone I do agree with you, I do have Anxiety when coming to socializing, but it's normal for some people who have it also.

@SilentShadow0110 I don't know that I would call Social Anxiety Disorder normal but it isn't totally uncommon. And there are treatments for it. You should consult a psychiatrist or psychologist for therapy. There are even medications FDA approved for Social Anxiety Disorder. I've benefitted from both medication and therapy.

@quitwhendone I do see a Therapist and she is working with me to improve better on my self Image and personality Goals.

@SilentShadow0110 Great! Sounds like you have a handle on it, then. Good for you! You have a low self-image, do ya? Do you have very few friends? Do you go out with your friends ever?

@quitwhendone If you understand I was HURT by a lot of Friends who I thought were my friends but turned out fake. As to your question, I don't have any friends to rely on the moment and don't need anyone either.

@SilentShadow0110 But we ALL ned friends. We all need human interaction. Ask your therapist. She will tell you. You can pretend you don't need people but you do. The hard part is finding the right people to befriend. It's ok to be picky with who you get close to. I certainly am. I have made some good friends over the years but I don't keep in touch with many of them cuz I don't always like to socialize.

@quitwhendone Like you said all I need is the right type of People to be friend with, and that is not easy to find in life.

@SilentShadow0110 Can I ask you something? These friends you had before who turned out to hurt you, what exactly did they do? If you don't want to talk about it in public chat, feel free to message me and tell me if you like.