Give up on dating. Instead, take up a fascinating new hobby (I recommend metal detecting and a metal detecting club) which involves, or can involve, groups of people. Or decide to learn something like a new language and you will meet people in the group you are in and have something to talk about.
Learn to ride a unicycle. It's not as hard as it looks.
Volunteer for Habitat for Humanity and build a house.
Take a pottery class and create your own set of dishes. Learn both mold casting and wheel thrown pottery.
Join a book club.
When you meet people to do something or discuss something, it feels more natural. And people show up because they're interested. It's really a better way to meet people than dating. Dating is for teenagers and young people.
