This isn't about the morality of weed - it's about you being potentially alienated from your boyfriend.

It is COMPLETELY legitimate to ask him not to smoke so much weed because you want to deal with him when he's sober. Weed is fine but using it every spare second you're not at work is unhealthy behaviour and importantly - it's putting a strain on you that's unfair to you.

Part of being in a relationship is working this stuff out so he can find space to get high but you can also get some time with him where he's not fucked up.

Smoking is life. I guess I'm a stoner too. Been smoking almost everyday for 9 years straight. There is nothing wrong with it. In fact I encourage you to smoke with him. It's become now legal in my state of Illinois... maybe your mind will change one day

I know where you are coming from. I smoked weed nearly everyday for about 4 years. It really did effect my drive to accomplish things, basically, all I wanted to do was get high. Then I grew up, and realized that there is more to life than getting high. Joined the Navy, stopped getting high because of piss tests, otherwise, I'd get kicked out, and blow my career. (This was in the mid to late 70's mind you.)
What to do? That's a tough one.
Obviously, a heart to heart talk is in order, but he cannot be stoned.
I wish you the best of luck.👍🤗🤗

When the weed becomes the most important thing over anything else, then it becomes an addiction. Do not give up on him, help him confront the real reason he seeks to escape, seek it out, talk with him about it.

Is he a ROLLING STONE

I would give him ultimatum and seriously stick to your word. You will find out his priorities in a hurry. I speak as someone who has lived this. It will not get any better. Good luck.

You can’t change him! Just accept him or find someone who fits your ideals

And... you will come to resent this in him..

Stoners are the master race 🤷‍♀️