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Would you marry a man/ woman with children in the past relationships?

I have a sister and she has a boyfriend (her first bf). They are like 2 years together now and physically away from each other right now. (She's in the UK and guy is from somewhere).She has a "motive" of getting married to his boyfriend although he already has a child from past relationship. As a woman, would you still marry a guy who already made some girl pregnant?

Add ons: My sis is actually doing good in life now (like financially), while the guy is not. Im just worried he might just be using her or something? I know I sound paranoid, but it's her first bf that's why she's crazy about it, but still, how do I make sure? She swears she will support our parents, but when she gets married, I dont think that would be the case. She's 24 and the guy is 29 I think.
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Based on my past life experience, I would not advise it. At such a young age, why not start with a clean slate. There will be enough baggage in life without picking up someone else's to start the journey.
fruitspunch · 36-40, F
Thanks. Those are the thoughts that I have as well. I just don't want her to change her priorities that she have dreamed of ever since she was a kid. And with the things right now, I'm worried that she would change all of it just for one guy she is crazy about. I just don't want her to make a bad choice in her life.