Guys, do u think women make the relationship about them?

Most of women and also men try to do it about the couple, the relationship.
Seems, anyhow, that each gender haves a non totally identical conception of what a relationship is or should be.
And each one "naturalize" it´s own view as if were the only posible, instead of two converging complementary ones.
This is not really about "communication", a bit overused term.
Is about experience and being open to live and think them.
Wich is rare, so there are clashes.