@WendyLopez43 Well, I guess it works for them. I dont think I'd like to be [b]that [/b]passive, but ppl vary a lot.

@firefall He likes being told what to do, he's an admitted follower.

@WendyLopez43 fair enough, that sounds ideal for them then.

@MrsPeterEvans different strokes, I've seen women who absolutely love being in control.

@WendyLopez43 don't understand that myself but then my dad was also very much in authority!

@WendyLopez43 I can tell you right now that over time you will get sick and tired of you making all of the decisions and will expect him to speak up and make some.

@NativeOregonian some people like all the power they can have

@WendyLopez43 Give it another five to ten years I bet you will be sick and tired of that power, it weighs heavy on your shoulders month after month, year after year. I have seen it too many times.