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4meAndyou · F
It took me a very long time to go from happy and loving my husband to...what's wrong with him? Then...I don't actually HAVE a husband, I have an abusive control freak alternating with periods of extreme neglect, and finally, the realization that he didn't love me at all. I fought it all the way. I dragged him to counseling, and I even tried to reconcile with him after our divorce. No one could have tried harder. We're talking a lot of time after it started to go south.