Would you be upset at this?

My partner split from his wife of 13 years last April and they eventually called it quits after therapy failed last July. We met a few weeks on, connected immediately and things have been blissful ever since.
Today however I was a bit concerned that he posted a photo of a day trip he had with his ex four years ago. It was to celebrate a big event but it seemed strange he would do that. He also put 'We had to travel ages to find food!' And again I question why he is talking about his ex when he hates her. Am I over reacting?

She wasn't in the photo but it still hurt.

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lost213 · 46-50, M

You should tell him how you feel about the photo. Maybe if it is something that he celebrates then perhaps the two of you can celebrate it together and make new memories. He may have used that photo because y’all haven’t been together long enough to make memories of your own. At least he didn’t use one with his ex. Hopefully he doesn’t have any with his ex.

Jenni855 · 36-40, F

@lost213 He does still have photos with his ex on facebook but I get that. When they get divorced they will come down.

lost213 · 46-50, M

If he cares about you and your feeling it should be down already.