Would you be upset at this?

My partner split from his wife of 13 years last April and they eventually called it quits after therapy failed last July. We met a few weeks on, connected immediately and things have been blissful ever since.
Today however I was a bit concerned that he posted a photo of a day trip he had with his ex four years ago. It was to celebrate a big event but it seemed strange he would do that. He also put 'We had to travel ages to find food!' And again I question why he is talking about his ex when he hates her. Am I over reacting?

She wasn't in the photo but it still hurt.

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TwiddlerofThumbs · F

Because he hates her you are upset that he has good memories of time spent with her? I have no idea if you are being unreasonable. But to expect someone to just forget 13 years of their life and pretend like it didn’t happen seems unreasonable.

Jenni855 · 36-40, F

@TwiddlerofThumbs I just don't think it needs to be on facebook and seems weird. He says most of the memories have been tainted now anyway because his ex was always drunk

TwiddlerofThumbs · F

Why does it bother you though? Is it what he did or does it cause concern for you about how he feels about you? @Jenni855

Jenni855 · 36-40, F

@TwiddlerofThumbs Both.
Seems weird he would post the photo knowing its a memory of time with her and also that he would kind of reference her in it