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Fell in Love with a soldier from another country. Anyone else experienced this?

I was on Tinder one day and matched with this guy from the army. He's from the US, I'm from Latvia. So first it was all fun and games, I was bored so I decided, why not? We started talking and then sh*t hit the fan. We started sending each other voice memos and pictures and texting all the time. I got attached to him. It seemed like we were perfect for each other, I know it sounds stupid, but I felt like that. He's everything I want in a person. He promised that we will meet. And then couple of days ago he texts me that he will be in Riga, I couldn't believe it, I was so excited, I couldn't believe that I would get to see him. Next day comes around, we're both excited and then he sends me a text from some guy that is in charge telling him to pack his bags and they are going to Lithuania. I knew that a relationship with him was impossible, zero chance but I hoped to see him at least once and at least get to hug him and touch him, that's all I ever wanted. That got taken away, I was crushed. I cried like a beluga whale the whole day. I know it's partly my fault because I should have known better and known that it's not possible, then things escalated so quickly.
Has anyone else had a similar experience?
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Mugin16 · 46-50, M
Why cannot you simply travel to Lithuania? The Baltic Republics are rather tiny in geographical terms and you Balts are on good terms with each other, not? What is stopping you to travel to him or him to travel back to Latvia?
huntermeadows · 31-35, F
Thank you and... As far as I know he never knows when he can go, they let them out at random times or tell them a day before. and to go to Lithuania I have to book a ticket in advance and it takes 3 hours to get there. i don't know man, all i know is that i can't to anything about it because he said his life is not his to command? It seems like nor him nor I can do anything about the situation...
Mugin16 · 46-50, M
@huntermeadows: I see your dilemma. The rational decision would be to forget about him and move on as a relationship is de facto impossible (as you said in your story). Sad but true.
Mugin16 · 46-50, M
@huntermeadows: You wrote "you got attached to him". Did he get attached to you too? That happens to women normally quicker than to men.
huntermeadows · 31-35, F
@Mugin16: you never know but i think he did, he said he wouldn't be so in depth and honest with me if he didn't like me...
Mugin16 · 46-50, M
@huntermeadows: That's of course easy said especially online. But you know that.