When you have put on some sexy lingerie but only met with his disinterest, what would you do?

@Caprice very much this. Maybe the guy has something serious going on. But if it is a repeating pattern or he'd just rather watch the game then it's probably time to move on. Feeling desired is an important part of our psychological health.

Exactly🙂@ViciDraco

@ViciDraco Thought I found that last part of feeling desired for a while now until recently when he just started not caring almost? Probably my misinterpretation

@Caprice Err...no it isn't. You can't base a relationship on lingerie.

@Wol62 Not doing that. But in general, him not caring about my feelings, sometimes saying hurtful things. Admittedly i havent been giving as much attention as I should

@Colourflame I wasn't saying you did. I am sorry if he does not care about your feeling and is upsetting you. Have you tried talking to him about how you feel?

@Colourflame definitely time to leave then. If he is not caring about your feelings or saying hurtful things then giving him more attention is just more opportunity for him to attack you. Sounds unhealthy to me.

If my s/o was continually showing disinterest in physical intimacy, that would be a huge problem. @Wol62