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Am I overreacting?

I’ve been talking to a guy for almost two weeks now but we’re not at the dating stage, just getting to know each other. Everything was fine at the beginning, we texted a lot as well as talked on the phone for long hours. Last weekend he got so busy with work, mother’s day and a birthday party which I understand but ever since then we haven’t been communicating much. He’s the one who asked to take me out and spend time with him. He seems like a great guy and everything it’s just the lack of communication which scares me and makes me think we won’t get any further. I just asked him if he really wants to take me out.

Now that I think about it I should’ve waited a few days or so to see if he would message me but do you guys think it was ok for me to do so?
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tenente · 100+, M
will hold my reply for when you find out he's actually a catfish, married 10+ years with 3 kids
FlowerchildK16 · 22-25, F
@tenente well I know him from school
tenente · 100+, M
@FlowerchildK16 in that case... sounds like he's reaching for excuses not to spend time with you. passiveness is weak. spend time with people who really want to be with you (not ignore you.)
SW-User
@tenente Good advice Tenente!
tenente · 100+, M
@SW-User ... maybe he's Canadian(?) 🤔
SW-User
@tenente That’s just the way it is ... 🙂