women, check you out first or ask you out with no body language foreplay?

@Coralmist Yes definitely.

is it more because it gives you a chance to fend off unwanted advances with body language or because you enjoy the play of it?

@biohak For me, I’d be SO nervous if a guy showed NO initial body language...that’s me anyway lol

@Coralmist awe that's endearing

It can be debilitating though, because I get intimidated by men🙁@biohak

it's a safety mechanism, and its right

@biohak I agree, sometimes...but I get so nervous I decline interest in me even though I WANT to talk to them😞

Something I’m working on...not feeling ‘less’ than a guy or always feeling intimidated...good Q btw@Coralmist