Are you insulted by people asking when you intend to marry?

My dad's parents used to ask me that all the time. Every time I saw them they'd say "When you going to get married?"...used to annoy the heck out of me because Most of the time I didn't even gave a girlfriend. Once I got married (both times) the question changed to when you going have kids?.🙄

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Actually I get annoyed when literally everyone assumes I’m married and if I say I’m not they assume it’s through choice because I must enjoy the single life or because I’m unable to commit etc. Nobody thinks it’s because I haven’t met the right person and refuse to hook up with just anyone.

When's the date?...not sure that depends when he'll ask?

Doesn’t bother me. I would probably feel attacked if I was middle aged, but I’ve got a long way until marriage...

It’s just funny to me. They seem more rushed than I am.

It never felt insulting, but it was always awkward. It’s like being asked after I got married: “when are you going to have a baby?”

No, I have a few years before that becomes a problem

People ask those questions still? 😮

No one says that anymore. Should I be insulted by that ? 😅

Why tho? marriage is just a contract for paranoid people to keep being together unless they won't involve government/lawyers