Anyone feel like...?

They make the effort for ur partner but they dont give back? I mean they appear to give back on ur birthday etc but dont seem to notice the day to day things u do for them? I dont care for my birthday or Xmas but I think it's the little things that count. Any time I flag it up to him he just goes quiet & says it's a bad time to talk about it! If I try another time it's a bad time for him... but he never comes forward to me!

Any thoughts?