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Zelllambert · 31-35, F
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Wurkoutgurl · 46-50, F
@Ryannnnnn being vulnerable is what allows you to love and be loved. I had a wall up for a long time. I loved that wall, I was safe, I was protected. I could go out on dates, get what I needed and never worry about being hurt because it was all on my terms and there were no real feelings involved. That wall was my best friend! But at night when I was alone it got pretty lonely behind that wall...
Ryannnnnn · 31-35, M
@Wurkoutgurl Yeah, I guess I'm just not at the point where I wanna be with anyone. When I meet someone I imagine i'll be able to feel that again, i just haven't met anyone since that's made me want to be vulnerable.
I'm happy atm anyway 😌 appreciate the wisdom ✌️
I'm happy atm anyway 😌 appreciate the wisdom ✌️
Wurkoutgurl · 46-50, F
@Ryannnnnn glad you're happy, That's most important!
kentex35 · 100+, M
definitely different between the sexes. I've notice women need more communication. So if a guy isn't talking much she thinks somethings wrong and might do everything but the 'act'. Men seem to think if she ain't putting out they're in trouble and so they don't talk afraid of making matters worse. Women generally think guys can change after marriage and count on it men get married hoping they don't change
Or something like that if not completely opposite lol. I've often found even women can't explain women.
Or something like that if not completely opposite lol. I've often found even women can't explain women.
jaymic64 · M
Depends on so many things.
Cantsayno · 56-60, M
I think I used to love people for who I wanted them to be. But now that I’m older I love people for who they are and how the treat others.
Cantsayno · 56-60, M
It’s ok to be single. Sometimes you need to take time to heal before you go into another relationship. @Wurkoutgurl
Wurkoutgurl · 46-50, F
@Cantsayno well,.that's what I did. Took five years of rediscovering myself, learning to love myself, reconnecting with my inner sassy bitch! 😉 I was good...and then....
PhoenixPhail · M
I DO think love has a different meaning for each person. When I tell someone I love them, I mean I love them unconditionally. Telling them I love them because I think that's what they need to hear, is fake.
Wurkoutgurl · 46-50, F
@PhoenixPhail agreed. I guess in my case, I feel love and respect go hand in hand. To allow others to disrespect me is showing me u don't really love me.
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Not how they need you too as I’m not sure how that works so well
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Wurkoutgurl · 46-50, F
@Overwatch6 I feel like I forgive and give a lot but it's not reciprocated.
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Wurkoutgurl · 46-50, F
@Overwatch6 😔 yeah. A change is needed, it's just so complicated
BearDownChicago · 41-45, M
Every person will take love differently. And much has to do with the context of the situation and how it is said and even the setting
Wurkoutgurl · 46-50, F
@BearDownChicago very true. But even if it's spelled out, sometimes those who say they love you, still can't or won't give you what u need.
Northwest · M
If the two don't agree on what love means, then it's not love, is it?