Can I have a best woman instead of a best man?

You can do anything you want at your wedding.

Yes you can. The requirements are two witness's doesn't matter the gender.

I was my best friends honor attendant in his wedding.

I've seen it happen before, it's totally cool.

Yeah man. Do it!

Absolutely. I've been to several weddings where the groom picked a woman to be at his side. It's far more common than you think.

Congratulations, btw

You can do whatever you like (as long as your fiancé is in agreement), there are no real set rules...only traditional ones.

I've seen it done...it's your day, do what makes you happy.

It's done all the time. Don't worry about it.

I've seen it on Drop Dead Diva, so why not

Your fiance is ok with it so why not?

I, for one, would not be ok with it...especially if you gave that reasoning 😂. I am of the idea there should only be one woman by your side on that day 🤷‍♀️